the gathering kind, part 2
What is the meaning of life? That was all- a simple question; one that tended to close in on one with years, the great revelation had never come. The great revelation perhaps never did come. Instead,...
View Articlethe gathering kind: getting surgical {part 3}
She didn’t finish her sentence because Isabel was running through the cypress trees so fast and with such force the trees were shaking for minutes afterwards. Laura watched the momentary chaos of the...
View Articlebrunch at sarabeth’s + cultivating a kula
Today I had one of those days where nothing happened, yet everything happened. Forever petrified of “new” people, I spent the morning with a friend and her best friend, working out and eating all...
View Articleone night in bangkok + the business of leaving
I’m rotten at goodbyes. Years ago an old friend from the party days and I sat on a cold Miami beach, watching the sun settle into the waves that had turned black. I told her about a storm that...
View Articlevegetarian chili (grain + gluten-free)
Have you ever looked at your house and realized it was your home? I’ve spent the better part of my childhood and early adulthood as a nomad, moving from apartment to apartment, and home had become the...
View Articlethe obligatory holy shit, I’m almost 40 post (another long post)
I haven’t been 39 for a day and already I’m realizing that next year I’ll turn 40. And before you lay into me about 40 being the new 30, you’re only as young as you feel, and all that jazz, I ask that...
View Articlegrain-free dark chocolate chip peanut butter banana bread
Today I spent the morning with one of my closest friends. Angie’s one of the few people with whom I can completely be myself. We’re quiet when we speak, there’s no artifice, and I often show up to her...
View Articlemujaddara: spiced lentils + rice with fried onions
Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about ties the bind, the power of female friendships. For most of my childhood I lived in the confines of my imagination. I devoured books at an unusual pace, and...
View Articlethis is 39: the year you no longer give a fuck
Photo Credit: Death to the Stock Photo My life, which exists mostly in the memories of the people I’ve known, is deteriorating at the rate of physiological decay. A color, a sensation, the way someone...
View Articlefig + millet muffins (protein-packed + gluten-free)
Last night I watched a woman pick up a shovel and hurl it at her door. On the other side of the door her husband stood mute. The woman’s voice was the loudest sound, and in the corner I could hear her...
View Articlethe ones you least expect: on friendship + the challenges geography brings
Over text the other day one of my closest friends tells me there was a time when I pushed her away and she took the hint and stayed away. I tell her I don’t recall this, although much of the years I...
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